Romance does not need to include another person. You can have romance with nature. You can have romance with travel. You can have romance with a cup of coffee in a cafe. You can have romance within.
Learn to efficiently do the things you don’t want to do so that you can spend most of your time and energy on what you do want to do.
Like everything else in life, being present takes practice. Wherever you are going, whatever you are doing, and whatever you are experiencing, think of it as the perfect opportunity to practice being present.